Since cheating is becoming somewhat of a common occurrence, there is a chance that you may have experienced the same problem and emotions.  Even if you have, it is important to not compare her situation to yours.  Your daughter’s situation should be treated with uniqueness.  Plus, a comparison may make your daughter feel as if you are trying to diminish her pain or draw attention away from her needs.

As previously stated, it is important to give your daughter the space and time that she needs to cope with a cheating boyfriend or the end of her relationship, but don’t allow her to shut out the whole world.  Avoiding school and peers that know, may be a goal of hers, but do not allow your daughter’s fear or embarrassment have a negative impact on her life.  Instead, encourage her to spend time with her friends, namely those who love and support her and will provide encouragement, regardless of the situation.