A wife becoming more secretive can often point to an extramarital affair.  For example, does your wife spend too much time on the phone or the internet?  If so, what does she say when you ask her what she is doing?  If you receive a “nothing,” or a “not your business,” response, something may be going on. 

In keeping with phone and internet use, does your wife automatically hang-up the phone whenever you walk into a room?  Does she shut off the computer or try to block your view of it?  If so, your wife’s secrecy may mean that she is trying to cover up an affair.

One of the simplest ways to catch a cheating wife is to start paying your bills.  In most relationships, this is the woman’s responsibility, but make it yours.  Examine your wife’s cell phone bills.  Does it show what phone numbers are called or what numbers text messages and pictures are received from?  Also, closely examine credit card bills. Are there expenses listed for hotel rooms, vacations, restaurants, or anything else that you have no idea about?  If so, your wife may be cheating on you.

The above mentioned signs are just a few of the many that you will want to look for in a cheating wife.  If you think that your wife is cheating on you, just be sure to keep your eyes and ears open.  Unfortunately for the cheaters, they often make mistakes.  Many women get so comfortable, that they slip up at one time or another.  If you know what to look for, this is when you may be able to catch your wife cheating.

If you do find out that your wife is cheating on you, you may want to carefully approach the subject.  Never confront your wife in front of your children.  No matter how angry you are, do not get violent and try to keep your voice at a reasonable level.  As hard as it can be, calming approaching the situation can better allow you and your wife to have an honest discussion.  This where you can decide what will happen you to and your relationship next.